Relationship:What say you.

The phatness of mizz gorgeous eliza

Relationship can be beautiful,ugly,addictive ..anything. But to find one good relationship needs one hell of a hard work.Hard work in the sense of patience,trust and 'jaga hati'.Shiish.

The earlier part of it,everything seems exciting,wonderful (and the list goes on and on and on).But do you realised that on that particular time, you're just in the stage of 'ice-breaking' session with your partner?

I had a discussion with a friend last Friday about relationships : earlier..later... According to her,relationship is never been ugly or something that you would expect to give you a hard time one day.Partly it's because she's still in the 'lovey-dovey' moment.(You know..the "It's ok sayang.I'll do everything for you.)Bbluuerk! But,come to think about it,whenever you start having a relationship in your life,here comes trouble.Be prepared.

Yes,it can be a happy,great beautiful moments at the beginning but as years pass by,you would somehow or rather realised that it's just a routine or you need a relationship in your life in order to be categorised as a normal human being.Basically,it's like a handphone.Nowadays, a mobile phone is not needs or wants but a MUST.Same goes to relationships as well.It's a MUST to have a relationship to fit in into the community.

In my opinion,I dont think relationship is a happy moment at all time.It can be fun at one time,but dont you feel by having it, you're actually transforming yourself into someone you're not or transforming your partner's life into someone they refuse to become? So what's the beauty of having a relationship then? Not being hipocrit or anything ,I admit that I do have my own but I'm not the type that "Ok baby,everything will go your way.I love you.Therefore,I'll do whatever you've wish me to do." Hell no.

I aint not changing my personality,my style,my attitude or whatever just because I end up being your girlfriend or fiancee.I'll do whatever I feel like doing.I'll do it my way.Whatever I think it's fine with me.Why must I listen to someone who's not even my husband ,right? Like the minah rempit always say "Lu sapa nak sekat-sekat wa."

What I'm trying to say is at the earlier part of a relationship,you have to discover more about your partner(if you think that person is a keeper la kan) , care not love,take it slow dont rush.Dont be too excited of the relationship you're into right now,learn and discover more about your partner. I bet you'll never be in a 'ha-ha' moment everytime ,like what my friend had claimed.There will be a time when you will feel like ,"Should I shoot him now?" when they became a pain in the ass.All the people in more than 5 years in a relationship say "Yeayyaaahh!"

But although you've face so many shitty times because of your partner,you cry,scream,acting nuts, but at the end of the day you'll still love them.In fact, you'll love them more as you've learn from the mistakes.That is what I feel when I had learn my lesson for being unreasonable.In fact,we both did.

Shit. now I dont know how to end this entry. hmm..so,what say you about relationships? ;>